Friday, June 25, 2010

Have fun! Smile! Enjoy it! - TIP

It is really that simple!

If you enjoy what you are doing, it shows!

Your audience feels it! They reflect what YOU feel.

You lead an event not only by what you say but by what you radiate!

In fact, these invisible vibes that you send out is what sets the mood for the event.

Look at this:

If you enter a stage with fear and insecurity that's what your audience will feel.

If you are confused, that's what they get too!

If you are high on energy and have fun, that's what they feel too.

So, setting up YOUR mood before entering a room is ESSENTIAL.

Often, presenters spend too much time worrying about what they will say rather than how they say it.

You probably realize that according to psychological studies at least 90% of you transmit is communicated trough non verbal forms.

The two big visible aspects of this non verbal transmission is the tone of your voice and body language.

Now, your next step is to consider the INVISIBLE as well.


These are way subtler aspects that your audience perceives!

Have you ever observed the way you feel when someone is insecure? It makes you feel very uncomfortable, right?

Now, how do you feel when you are in the presence of a super confident person.

That makes you confident too!

What do you prefer feeling?

See how it works?

This is called limbic or emotional resonance.

It is our ability to imitate someone else's emotions.

This happens spontaneously! We don't even need to think about it.

When you have fun, smile and enjoy leading an event that's what everyone else feels too!